Marriage and Babies?

Do you know how annoying it is to always hear oh you're married when are you going to have a baby? Don't get me wrong babies are cute and I do eventually plan on having some but why is that always the first thing that comes out of people's mouths. Even before I was married my family would be like I had a dream about fish or say that I was gaining weight so I must be pregnant. It's this constant you have a man in your life so you HAVE to have a baby. I like being able to live my life to the fullest and not have to worry about kids or the money that gets put in to have a kid. Every conversation doesn't have to involve children, some of us as millenials don't want to have babies or want to wait until our 30's to bring the topic up. There should be no one pressuring you or making you feel as though you need to have a child by a certain time, Naomi Campbell had her baby at 51 and Priyanka Chopra had one at 39 (even if they were surrogate births) . My point of this post though is stop asking women when they are going to have children, some don't want kids, some can't get pregnant, and some are just waiting for the right time. Happy Black history month to all of my melanin family and Happy Birthday month to me